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7 Deadly Mistakes Lonely Women Make, Why some women will never find or keep a boyfriend

Generally, there are seven categorical reasons some women have difficulties finding and keeping boyfriends. These reasons have evolutionary and biological roots that divide the sexes in behavioral proclivities. I am not saying, "this is what women should do, or have to do to get a man." What I am saying is, "these are general things that some women tend to do that men tend to take exception to and why they do." Having said that, here are the seven areas:

The Desperation Mindset
Humans are hunters and gathers, so we value items that are more difficult to acquire. For the ancients, this meant key survival items (e.g. best food and building materials). The human brain consolidates and simplifies. The lessons of hunting and gathering became: difficult = valuable & easy = invaluable, very much the same way all of the lessons of conflict resolution became, fight-or-flight. As society grew more complex, the consolidated and simplified hunter/gatherer lesson was corrupted. For example, diamond jewelry is expensive, whereas cubit zirconium (CZ) jewelry is cheap. Yet, a CZ has all the qualities that attracted to humans to using diamonds for jewelry. Likewise, a readily available woman has less appeal.

Men were the hunters, and women were the gatherers. Hence, men instinctually love hunting, and the male brain thrives on the neurochemical rewards of capture, i.e. dopamine and serotonin. Dopamine releases in anticipation of reward, not the actual reward, so the actual qualities of the woman do not matter as much as hunting her. Variability also increases dopamine in the brain. That is why gambling is addictive and why players play around. Not knowing if you will have a big kill or no kill is irresistible for the brain’s reward system. Players are not into their conquests; they are into the dopamine derived from whether or not the quest becomes a conquest.

(Psychology Today, Posted Apr 11, 2014 )

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